In the winter of 2023, I set out to host a special festive wellness afternoon tea for the beautiful women of Hampshire. Little did I know it would turn into a day full of surprises, showcasing resilience, community, and the unpredictable beauty of live events.
After months of carefully planning, the big day had finally arrived and I was eager to make it special for everyone. I had rallied a team to help me for the day and we were ready. However, when we got to the venue, we hit a snag – the hall wasn't available until midday. Panic set in, and a lot unfolded in those few minutes. Well, the details of that chaotic moment are a story for another day; let's just say we faced an unexpected challenge!
My mind was racing, and all I could think about was how to decorate the venue in time, but then a revelation dawned upon me – there was little to gain from dwelling on the uncontrollable. With two unexpected hours on our hands, I decided to take a step back. I went back home, took a therapeutic soak, and embraced the idea of turning a challenging situation into an opportunity. After all, if I was planning a wellness event, what better way to start than by turning a lemon of a situation into a refreshing glass of lemonade?
With the clock ticking, our team rallied with unequalled determination. We transformed the initially unavailable hall into a festive heaven, weaving together decorations, lights, trinkets and tea cups. As the clock struck 14:00 (event start time), we found ourselves on the cusp of readiness, yet a few essential elements still needed finessing. In an unprecedented move, we asked our guests to remain in their cars for a short while longer. What followed was a display of amazing grace as they patiently waited, demonstrating an unanticipated sense of camaraderie that set the tone for the day. Â
Moments later we welcomed our guests with a red-carpet entrance and our signature winter warmer mocktail (one for the books). The festivities began with a captivating icebreaker that brought forth the playful and competitive sides of our attendees. It was a sight to behold as women, initially strangers, connected through laughter and shared experiences.  And then it was time to eat. The heart of our event lay in the culinary experiences VeeNess_Treats crafted for our guests. One item unexpectedly stole the spotlight –the ham and pimiento cheese sandwich. Created in the experimental confines of my kitchen, this culinary creation became an unexpected star, garnering praise and demanding an encore.
The day seamlessly transitioned into a catwalk – a lighthearted display of individuality and style. As each woman took her turn, the room erupted in applause and admiration, transforming every step into a celebration of unique beauty. Surprisingly, we, too, found ourselves immersed in the joy of the moment, as if all our insecurities were being healed. Following the catwalk, deep and heartfelt conversations unfolded, creating an intimate connection among attendees and emphasizing the true essence of community. The event evolved beyond a mere gathering; it became a space where authenticity took centre stage, leaving a lasting impression on everyone involved.
As the event ended, a profound sense of joy washed over me. Despite the unforeseen challenges, VeeNess_Treats had successfully hosted its first event, leaving an indelible mark on those who attended. I extend my deepest gratitude to my friend Patience, whose unwavering support was instrumental in filling half the room. To Chrissy, Sharon and Olivier, who rallied behind me to make this event possible, and to all the incredible women who graced us with their presence and provided invaluable feedback, your contributions are the cornerstone of our vibrant community.Â
As I reflect on the day's events, I am reminded of the journey I embarked upon since 2018 – the growth, the challenges, and the milestones achieved. This event, with its trials and triumphs, stands as a testament to the resilience of our community and the power of coming together. Here's to many more shared moments, mutual growth, and the unwavering spirit that propels us forward.
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Find what you love and let it free you. VeeNess